DIEGO’S STORY OF REUNIFICATION: FOSTER CARE AWARENESS MONTH

"Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.” - James 1:27

Man Up stands on this declaration.

We are committed to seeing a father for every child come to fruition.

If you don’t know by now, May is Foster Care Awareness Month, a time dedicated to recognizing the role foster care plays in the lives of many children and families. While the foster care system often emphasizes safety and stability for children in crisis, it also holds the promise of transformative reunification, where children can return to their biological families under healthier, more supportive conditions. Reunification represents hope and resilience, showing that life change is possible even in the most challenging circumstances.

Reunification is not just a legal process; reunification is a profound emotional and psychological journey for both children and parents. It requires intensive support, dedication, and sometimes significant time to address the underlying issues that led to separation. Yet, when achieved, reunification is a testament to the power of love, perseverance, and the human capacity for change.

Take Diego, for instance, who lost his two young daughters to the system of care back in October of last year.

Little did he know that when he felt like all parties involved were against him, he would find an ally in our Fatherhood team. With James 1:27 in mind, no stone would be unturned when it came to getting his children back.

Typical case plans run anywhere from a year to multiple years depending on the motivation on the father’s end and the support system they have in their corner. In this particular case, Diego had no support and did not trust the system as it currently stands.

In steps, our Fatherhood Engagement Specialist worked with Diego, sat with him, listened to him, walked alongside him, and guided him in the right direction.

After a lengthy trial and meeting all case plan tasks, Diego was reunified with his daughters on May 3rd, 2024. 

Stories like Diego's highlight the profound impact of reunification in the foster care system.

Although the process sees its fair share of setbacks, roadblocks, and heartaches, the journey to reunification can provide both fathers and children with a sense of identity, belonging, and continuity, which are crucial for their emotional and psychological well-being.

For fathers, it offers a second chance to rebuild their lives and relationships, reinforcing the belief that they can overcome adversity. 

Reunification serves as a beacon of hope, demonstrating that even in the face of hardship, families can heal and reunite, stronger and more resilient than before.

The foster care system, through its focus on both protection and rehabilitation, plays a vital role in facilitating these life changes. Foster Care Awareness Month is an opportunity to celebrate these successes and recognize the ongoing efforts needed to support our families in crisis.

For more information on how to get involved to serve, coach, or even help foster care families, check out our website and follow the prompts to sign up for our many info sessions/trainings.